Saturday, October 22, 2011

How can I be proud of my China if we are a nation of 1.4bn cold hearts?

Shame on us Chinese! Last Thursday a two-year-old girl was run over twice, about 100 metres from her home in a hardware market district of Foshan, a prosperous city in southern China. As she lay on the ground, writhing in pain, before being hit by the second vehicle, 18 people, on their bicycles, in cars or on foot, passed by but chose to ignore her. Among them a young woman with her own child.

Finally, a 58-year-old female rubbish collector came to the girl's rescue, but it was too late. By the time she was brought to the hospital, the girl Yueyue, (whose name translates as Little Joy), was brain dead. She was declared dead early on Friday morning. She was a good girl, full of life, her mother said a few days ago in an interview. She said she had just brought Yueyue back from her kindergarten. She popped out to collect the dry clothes and returned to find Yueyue gone – probably trying to look for her elder brother.
It might have been a different story if one of the 18 people had lent Yueyue a hand. None even bothered to call for emergency services. Later, when interviewed by a journalist, one of the passersby, a middle-aged man riding a scooter, said with an uncomfortable smile on his face: "That wasn't my child. Why should I bother?"

Before giving himself up to the police, the driver of the second vehicle, a van, told the media why he had run away. "If she is dead, I may pay only about 20,000 yuan (£2,000). But if she is injured, it may cost me hundreds of thousands of yuan." What's wrong with these people? How could they be so cold-hearted? The horrific scene was caught by a surveillance camera and has been watched by millions of viewers since it was posted on Youku, China's equivalent of YouTube.

This is only the latest incident where tragedy has struck as a result of the callous inactivity of onlookers. Last month an 88-year-old man fell over face down at the entrance of a vegetable market near his home. For almost 90 minutes, he was ignored by people in the busy market. After his daughter found him and called an ambulance, the old man died "because of a respiratory tract clogged by a nosebleed". If anyone had turned him over, he might have survived.

Both cases, the death of Yueyue in particular, have provoked much public outrage and a nationwide discussion about morality in today's China. From Shanghai, someone with the cybername 60sunsetred wrote: "The Chinese people have arrived at their most morality-free moment!" There was plenty of condemnation of the cold-heartedness of the passersby. But, astonishingly, a large percentage of posters said they understood why the onlookers did not lend a helping hand. Some admitted they would do the same – for fear of getting into trouble and fear of facing another "Nanjing judge".

Let me explain the story of the muddle-headed Nanjing judge. In 2006, in the capital of Jiangsu province, a young man named Peng Yu helped an old woman who had fallen on the street and took her to a hospital and waited to see if the old woman was all right. Later, however, the woman and her family accused Peng of causing her fall. A judge decided in favour of the woman, based on the assumption that "Peng must be at fault. Otherwise why would he want to help?", saying that Peng acted against "common sense". The outcry from the public in support of Peng forced the court to adjust its verdict and resulted in Peng paying 10% of the costs instead of the total. Since that incident Peng has become a national cautionary tale: the Good Samaritan being framed by the beneficiary of their compassion.

It's true that in China you can get into trouble when you try to help. Weeks ago I spotted an accident on the fourth ring road in Beijing as I returned home one night. A man was hit by a "black car", an "illegal taxi", and his face was all bloody. Watched over by a crowd, the injured man behaved aggressively towards the driver. I got off my scooter. As I tried to pull the two men apart, I was struck myself. When I asked if anyone had reported this to the police, the driver said no. I couldn't believe that people just stared as if enjoying a free show, without doing anything. I called the helpline and the policemen turned up soon after.

The fundamental problem, in my view, lies in one word that describes a state of mind: shaoguanxianshi, meaning don't get involved if it's not your business. In our culture, there's a lack of willingness to show compassion to strangers. We are brought up to show kindness to people in our network of guanxi, family and friends and business associates, but not particularly to strangers, especially if such kindness may potentially damage your interest.

Fei Xiaotong, China's first sociologist, described Chinese people's moral and ethical characteristics in his book, From the Soil, in the middle of the last century. He pointed out that selfishness is the most serious shortcoming of the Chinese. "When we think of selfishness, we think of the proverb 'Each person should sweep the snow from his own doorsteps and should not fret about the frost on his neighbour's roof,'" wrote Fei. He offered the example of how the Chinese of that period threw rubbish out of their windows without the slightest public concern. Things are much the same today.
Under Mao, citizens were forced to behave themselves in both public and private spheres. Every March, people were obliged to go into the street to do good deeds: cleaning buses, fixing bicycles and offering haircuts. Now relaxed social control and commercialisation over the past three decades have led people to behave more selfishly again.

People are enjoying, and sometimes abusing, the vast personal freedoms that didn't exist before. To start with, it is now safe to be "naughty". Back in the early 1980s, when I worked at a rocket factory in Nanjing, one of my colleagues, a married man, was caught having an affair with an unmarried woman. He was given a three-year sentence in a labour camp and the girl was disgraced. In today's society, having extramarital affairs or keeping an ernai – second wife or concubine – is as common as "cow hair", as the Chinese would say. For a novel I am writing on prostitution, I have interviewed many prostitutes and ernai. Many see their profession as a way to gather wealth quickly, feeling few moral qualms.

China's moral crisis doesn't just manifest itself in personal life but also in business practice and many other areas. The high-profile "poisoned milk powder" case and the scandal of using "gutter oil" as cooking oil have shocked and disgusted people around the world. Last year an article, "Why have Chinese lost their sense of morality?", in which the author tried to find an explanation, was widely read. He reasoned that China has introduced the concept of a market economy from the west but failed to import the corresponding ethics, while the traditional moral principles of China no longer fit the market economy model.

There's a lot of sense in that. I believe that the lack of a value system is also deepening the moral crisis. Before Mao, the indifference towards others once so accurately described by Fei existed but was mitigated by a traditional moral and religious system. That system was then almost destroyed by the communists, especially during the 10 mad years of the Cultural Revolution from 1966 to 1976. Nowadays communism, the ideology that dominated Chinese people's lives like a religion, has also more or less collapsed. As a result, there's a spiritual vacuum that cannot be filled by the mere opportunity of money-making.

To drag China out of its moral crisis will be a long battle. The pressing question is how to make people act in cases of emergency and the solution is law. After the "Nanjing case", there have been discussions about introducing a law that imposes a "duty of rescue" as exists in many European countries. I am all for it, because that's probably the only way to propel action for a people who do not see a moral obligation in rescuing others.

The Yueyue incident revealed an ugly side of China. I hope the entire nation will take the opportunity to take a hard look at ourselves and ask ourselves what's wrong with society. There's at least hope in the action of the rubbish collector who rushed to Yueyue's side without hesitation.

China's economy is galloping like a horse without a rein and its position in the world is rising. We Chinese have every reason to feel proud about what we've achieved. Now we demand respect. But how can we possibly win respect and play the role of a world leader if this is a nation with 1.4 billion cold hearts?

http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2011/oct/22/china-nation-cold-hearts

A really disheartening and thought provoking article. It's made me think about my own actions, and whether I have become cold and unyielding to those around me. Especially having moved to NYC, where that is the stereotype, I pray living here isn't changing me for the worse.

Monday, October 17, 2011

Halloween Costume Ideas





These are adorable and genius and seemingly creatable. 


Sunday, October 16, 2011

Monday, October 10, 2011

C Pop Day


Wang Lee Hom - Bo Ya  Jue Xian


Wang Lee Hom - Da Cheng Xiao Ai


Guang Liang - Tong Hua

Been my soundtrack for the day, they really fit my mood.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

ATL Itinerary


Thursgay
Time (est.) Activity Price People Involved Objective
4:00 - 6:00 pm Pick up Kevo n/a Grace To bring our Queen to us
6:00 PM Southern Welcome Dinner - Mary Mac's or Busy Bee's $-$$ Everyone To fill our bellies with delicious fried southern food
8:00 PM Get Kevo settled n/a Everyone Time to unpack both of your unicorn pillow pets
9:00 PM - 12am Going Out - ie. Claremont Lounge, El Bar, EAV, Sound Table, etc $-$$ Everyone Light libations and chill night out. The adults have work tomorrow.
12:00 AM Sleepytime n/a Everyone ZZZZZZZ





Frigay
Time (est.) Activity Price People Involved Objective
9:00 am - 10:00am Breakfast/Brunch - Belly's General Store $ Ken & Kevo To only share 100 calories of sustanence between the two of us.
10:00-12:00 pm Hangout around VaHi, Piedmont Park, etc. n/a Ken & Kevo To walk off all that we ate.
12:00:00 PM - 1:00 pm Visit Brandon at work/ Bietnamese lunch at Quoc Huong, Lee's Sandwich,  or Nam Phuong $ Ken, Kevo, & Brandon To fill in the Vietnamese food void that Kevo developed since moving to NYC
1:00 pm - 5:00 pm  Nap or spontaneity time n/a Ken & Kevo Neighborhood spotlights? Suprises? WHO KNOWS?!
5:00 - 8:00 pm Dinner Time $$ Everyone Depends on what Kevo wants to eat - can venture to Duluth or stay local in town
8:00 PM Bask in fullness/ ge ready for a nighttime activities n/a Everyone Retreat back to homes to get ready for nightime festivities
9:00 PM - 4am Night time activities - Minh's Bday party, Midtown, Reign, Gold Room, etc. $-$$ Everyone To cheers to the freakin weekend.
4:00 AM Sleepytime n/a Everyone ZZZZZZZ





Saturgay
Time (est.) Activity Price People Involved Objective
10:00 am - 11:00 am Wake up n/a Everyone To greet the morning sky!
11:00 AM Brunch - Highland Bakery $-$$ Everyone To help cure our potential hangovers.
12:00 pm - 3:00 pm Visit Mary's Bday n/a Everyone To celebrate Mary's birth!
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm Aquarium & Centennial Place $ Everyone To reenact scenes from LL Cool J's film, Deep Blue Sea
8:00 PM Ken rejoins group; Homecooked Family Dinner n/a Everyone To fill our stomachs, while keeping our wallets phat.
8:00 PM - 10:00 pm 30 Rock/ SunO's $ Everyone To fill our slankets with farts
10:00:00 PM - ? Nighttime Activities - Noni's, Jungle, MJQ, etc. $-$$ Everyone The last night before our Queen leaves, thus we must celebrate!
?? Am Sleepytime n/a Everyone ZZZZZZZ





Sungay
Time (est.) Activity Price People Involved Objective
10:00 am - 11:00 am Wake up n/a Everyone To greet the morning sky!
11:00 - 12:30 pm Church time or other morning activity n/a Grace, Brandon, & Ken go to church. Kevo can join or meet up with Kevin & others for brunch time To make Jesus walk, so we don't go to Hell.
12:30 pm - 4:00 pm Last minute hangouts, food, etc n/a Everyone To savor our last moments with Kevo before he returns to concrete jungle.
4:00 pm or earlier Take Kevo to airport n/a Everyone To send Kevo back to the North (Vietnam). Crying may be included.


I love my friends!! I can't wait to see them tomorrow in ATL. It will be a Ciara, Ludacris, T.I. Weekend!!

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

New Winter Coat





By Kai-Aakmann. I'm liking how many different ways I can wear it. Especially the oversized turtleneck.

Future shopping endeavors include chunky scarves, oversized beanies, and olive green skinny pants.

Monday, September 26, 2011

50 Documentaries to see before I die

50. Spellbound (2002)
49. Madonna: Truth or Dare (1991)
48. The Kid Stays in the Picture (2002)
47. One Day in September (1999)
46. Little Dieter Needs to Fly (1998)
45. Decline of Western Civilization: The Metal Years (1988)
44. Burma VJ (2008)
43. When the Levees Broke: A Requiem in Four Acts (2006)
42. Catfish (2010)
41. The King of Kong: A Fistful of Quarters (2007)
40. When We Were Kings (1996)
39. Biggie and Tupac (2002)
38. March of the Penguins (2005)
37. Inside Job (2010)
36. Taxi to the Dark Side (2007)
35. Paragraph 175 (2000)
34. Brother’s Keeper (1992)
33. Tongues Untied (1989)
32. Dogtown and Z-Boys (2001)
31. Jesus Camp (2006)
30. Farenheit 9/11 (2004)
29. Man on Wire (2008)
28. GasLand (2010)
27. Tarnation (2003)
26. Murderball (2005)
25. Enron: The Smartest Guys in the Room (2005)
24. Paradise Lost: The Child Murders at Robin Hood Hills (1996)
23. The Eyes of Tammy Faye (2000)
22. Shut Up & Sing (2006)
21. Exit Through The Gift Shop (2010)
20. Capturing the Friedmans (2003)
19. Touching the Void (2003)
18. Food, Inc. (2008)
17. Street Fight (2005)
16. Bus 174 (2002)
15. Crumb (1994)
14. Dark Days (2000)
13. The Fog of War (2003)
12. Bowling For Columbine (2002)
11. Paris Is Burning (1990)
10. Grizzly Man (2005)
9. Trouble the Water (2008)
8. An Inconvenient Truth (2006)
7. The Celluloid Closet (1995)
6. The War Room (1993)
5. Super Size Me (2004)
4. Waltz with Bashir (2008)
3. Roger and Me (1989)
2. The Thin Blue Line (1988)
1. Hoop Dreams (1994)

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Note

Tonight is one of those nights, where I believe I need to edit who I surround myself with. I believe, when I lived in the bay I chose very well who I would befriend. Here, I think I was too eager, too desperate to gain acceptance.  I need to re-evaluate, who I'm considering a friend, and really ask myself, is this person going to help me make wise decisions, or going to halter my progress.

I think about this a lot, whether Im making progress or not. I would feel so guilty, if I moved all this way and to learn nothing about myself. I could receive the same education back in California, but I chose New York because it represented a position where I could grow and become more independent. That mission is always on my mind as I make my choices here. I am always trying to learn, to experience something new. If I wanted to be comfortable I would've went to UC Berkeley. I'm here. I'm here to stay. I want to make something of myself here.

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Aww

I just received the kindest email from my Japanese mom.

Hello Kevin!
 
Thank you for your kind e-mail, and sorry for having not sent you a mail for long time. I got not good sometimes and was a little busy, but of course I have never forgotten you and I was often thinking about you.
 
My middle and youngest sons are going to Europe this time soon. If they went to USA, I would definetly contact you.
 
How about living in New York? I wish you will get  used to there soon and enjoy your new life there. But even now you sound lile be so!
 
As coming the summer vacation, the number of tourists to Nara are gradually returning but not to normal. We even feel it happy. This summer is terribly hot in Japan. Is it also hot in N.Y.?
 
We, some members of our volunteer guide group, are now prepareing to issue twice a year news papers about Nara, our activities and etc. This one features the special products of Nara , of course ? of foods.
I am writing about Somen, like fine  Udon. and I also wrote about you, an American student  who knows about Sun Goddess, Amaterasuomikami from Nintendo.
 
As an another article, we are writing about the free experimence of wearing Kimono for women or Hakama for men and attending tea ceremony with Kimono. I want you to experience them nex time you will come back Nara.
 
Please take care of yourself and enjoy your new life! Hope to hear from you soon!
 
Best regards,
Ayako

I miss Japan so much. When can I return?

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Amy Winehouse - Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow


Obsessed with this song lately. I long for this feeling.

Fashion Week

NYFW has come and gone. I fought through the craziness that was the Missoni x Target pop-up shop. Ended up with a few ties, a comforter set, a weekender bag. I wear my goods like a proud battle scar. I see others with pieces of the collection on the street and I feel we are connected somehow. Like brothers and sisters who both shared in battle. I share the same smug expression because we know that we got first dibs on what caused the fashion world to go into disarray.

Also nabbed an invite the the Tadashi Shoji runway show. Thanks JB. It was such an intimate space, I really felt like I was somebody there. Even though no one knew me, I still felt fabulous. The show itself was beautiful. The gowns. Can't wait to have an optometrist's income to buy those for my mom. 



 One of my favorites.

This one was gorgeous

The Missoni's. How I long to be one of them. Adopt me please?

 Mr. Bill Cunningham.  Proud to know who he is, unlike many of these gawkers.

The battlefield.

Bliss

Simple happiness tonight. A glass of Napa wine. Amy Winehouse playing. Reminiscing about great times had.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

My NYC Room



Mostly barren. Very minimal. I want more art. This is my home for the next year.

Beastie Boys X Beyonce - Girls on Girls (Captain Cuts Remix


Sorry I haven't posted in a while, been busy with school and move and craziness. So far I love NYC. If I had a smartphone I would update more.

This is my new jam. Thanks Craig-y.

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Bye Bye California

Laying here on the beaches of playa del carmen, it still hasn't hit me that I won't be going back. I had some sentimental feelings the nights prior, but no heartache. No longing.

One thing I know I'll miss is radio. 106.1 KMEL and 102.9 KBLX are so close to my heart. When I drive to work and they're bumping I feel so at home in the bay.

I'll miss the drive across the bay bridge into the city. It's so beautiful, all the lights of the city.

Of course I'll miss my friends and family there. I was so blessed to be surrounded by such beautiful souls while I was back. I'm forever grateful for the new friendships I've developed and the loved ones who shared time with me in the bay. Looking back on my photo albums from this past year I can say I was truly happy.

These past 6 months were my longest time being single. Such an unusual experience. It did lead tithe growth of some amazing friendships, and plenty of new experiences. If I was tied to someone during these times i don't think I'd have had nearly as much fun as I did. But who knows what New York brings. Love? Maybe. Beautiful people? Definitely. We'll see where my heart leads me.


Pet Peeve

I can't stand thoughtlessness.



Bye Bye California 2

I already miss my brother. He really is an amazing person. A thousand times more patient than I. He puts up with a lot that I could never. I hope he has the opportunity to leave home soon. He deserves it more than I do, but I know that isn't his personality. After this vacation with some truly idiotic teenagers, I realize that he has an excellent head on his shoulders. The only quality he is missing is the drive to go after what he wants. Ultimately, that's one of the biggest differences between the two of us.

Living at home with him for a year was really nice. He definitely made the transition home much friendlier. Especially with all the crap that went on with Ong Ngoai, without him there I think I might have gone crazy. As soon as he's 21, I'm flying him out to NYC to show him how to live.



"It's called the past cause I'm gettin' past" - Alicia Keys



Friday, July 15, 2011

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 2 (2011)

Sigh. The end of an era. It actually makes me feel pretty sad. I feel like I grew up with Harry. I was at just the right age when the books came out, that I traveled through Hogwarts with him. I have to say this was my favorite of the films. I cried and cried and cried during Fred's death. Damn, that was really depressing. I think I have to reread the books now. I am confused that the film insinuated that Snape was Harry's mother.  Or something along those lines...

Also, I was thrown off by the portrayal of Dumbledore. In the pensieve scene, Dumbledore looks like such an a-hole. Raising Harry like a lamb to be slaughtered at the right time, but shortly after, he's a nice guy again during Harry's limbo scene. I was confused.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Groove Theory - Tell Me


Such a classic. I love throwback days.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

My Future




I will become this man. It is like looking into my future.

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

I Can Do Bad All By Myself (2009)


I can watch this movie over and over again and not get tired. I relate so well to Taraji's character. I feel like I'm watching a black, fabulous version of myself. It reminds me to check myself, not to be selfish.

Also, Brian White. Hello.

It's Funny

What used to be the world to you in the past, can barely be a memory today.

Monday, July 4, 2011

Ocean

I've been dreaming about being in the ocean a lot lately. I think it's a sign.

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Spanish Day




Half day at work -> Balenciaga and Spain at the DeYoung -> Buying crazy print short shorts -> Sangria -> Tapas -> Sangria

A wonderful Thursday all around.

Babies (2010)


What a cute freaking movie. This made me so sure that I want many many babies of my own. Gahhh. In most documentaries my favorite scenes are the ones with babies...and this was just one documentary full of those scenes! Ahh!! There were some points where it was slow, and there wasn't much of a story. But oh god so cute.

M2M - Don't Say You Love Me


Such a good throwback. So pure and innocent. I miss 90's crop tops.

"Don't say your heart's in a hurry, not like we're gonna get married."

Friday, July 1, 2011

Jojo - Marvin's Room


This song is so on point! I can't wait for her comeback.

"Once you had the best boy, you can't do better. Baby I'm the best, so you can't do better."

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Paprika (2006)


Unfortunately, I watched this film dubbed. The voice acting was terrible! That aside, it was a very cool, very fantastical film. It was kind of like the Inception of anime, before Inception was made. Most of all, I loved the creativity of the artwork. All kinds of craziness happening everywhere.

Jennifer Hudson - No One Gonna Love You


Jam of the day. I'm really enjoying this recent J. Hud. album.

Friday, June 24, 2011

Convo with Kevin Kwong

2:28
Kevin Kwong
ok
i'm gonna wear boardshorts

2:31
Kevin Phan

ahahahah
yay for weekend of tanktops and shorts!!

2:31
Kevin Kwong

yayyy
oh man i should work out
but i'm so lazy

2:32
Kevin Phan

omg i finally get to see your tat too!

2:32
Kevin Kwong

oh yeah!!!

2:32
Kevin Phan

LOL i thought the same thing

2:32
Kevin Kwong

lololol
i'm just gonna do pushups and crunches instead

2:32
Kevin Phan

lolol
ill jsut starve myself

2:32
Kevin Kwong

oh that's an even better idea

Adele - Someone Like You



Today is an Adele day. Adele is lonely music.
"Hatred is like a long, dark shadow. Not even the person it falls upon knows where it comes from, in most cases. It is like a two-edged sword. When you cut the other person, you cut yourself. The more violently you hack at the other person, the more violently you hack at yourself. It can often be fatal. But it is not easy to dispose of."  -The Wind Up Bird Chronicle
Things used to be so easy.

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

“For the first time in my life I was able to travel the world, hear different influences, see different types of dance and choreography and taste different types of food. It was important that I was able to digest everything. It inspired purity, more heart and more love.” - Beyonce
I need more time away.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Wisdom Teeth


That's me a day after my wisdom teeth got taken out. Slightly swollen, but not all that bad. Minimal pain, didn't really need Vicodin. I healed pretty quickly, was eating solid foods 2 day after. I still have the cavities where the lower teeth used to be. Small food, like tobiko, get stuck in it a lot. So I have to keep flushing the cavities until it heals over. The right side is just about healed, the left is taking a bit longer.

New Shoes



Present to myself after a day in Hell (Fairfield). New work out shoes. They make me feel like a ninja, I'll wear them with my Kakashi vest.

PS My hair is really long, time to get a trim tomorrow.

John Legend - Rolling in the Deep


How I'm feeling right now.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Beyonce - I Care


My favorite song on the album. Hits close to home too.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Happy Beyonce Appreciation Day


So damn hilarious. Someone has too much time.

Robyn - Be Mine!


The last long made me go find this one. This down tempo version really gets to me.

Rye Rye - Never Will Be Mine ft. Robyn


My jam of the day. Love that she brought in Robyn.

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Norimi

My absolute favorite. He has so much style I might die. The leather, the bag, especially the shoes. I will become this man.


Japanese Streets

Here are some of my faves from www.japanesestreets.com. So much inspiration.


I love the jacket and the fox stole. I think I definitely need to incorporate fox into my closet. Not to mention the leopard print pants.


This is me in a nutshell. I will be recreating this look.


I love how he takes those crazy print pants and makes them work. I'm on the look out for more crazy prints.



Sunday, June 12, 2011

Unhappy

I'm everything I don't wanna be right now. Drunk. High. Sweaty. Used. Tired.

Sure I met cuties and made out and smoked and drank with them. But so what? They're meaningless to me.

I don't miss my ex at all. What I do miss is someone to be there for me. Someone to lean on. This single life I live now. I can only rely on myself. My family and friends are there, but only to an extent. The bond is different between me and a significant other. I miss that, the connection.

As I read in Norwegian Wood, all I want is someone who wants to understand me, and for us to understand each other completely. That is love.



Saturday, June 11, 2011

Nanpa Bar

Scott and I came up with the great idea of Nanpa Bar.

Nanpa is the Japanese custom of picking up girls. In public areas like a courtyard or a bridge, young(mostly) people just hang out, often times it is a meeting place. It also serves as a place to nanpa. Guys will go up to girls and see if they can pick them up.

Our bar will be exactly the same. With a giant bridge in the center, or above. Once you're on the bridge you are fair game. Wahaha. There will be a waterfall behind, with a wading pool. And dancefloor where the floor with be clearish. So it seems like you dance on water.

Also, once a week we will having booking night.

Best idea ever.

Friday, June 10, 2011

Norwegian Wood


What a beautiful novel. Haven't shed tears like that for fiction in a while. It's nice.
"I've decided to make myself strong. As far as I can tell, that's all I can do."
That was my favorite quote.  So simple, so applicable.

It's 5AM. I couldn't stop reading. Still not tired now. I just want to lay here and try to soak it in.

Thursday, June 9, 2011

X Men First Class


Mixed feelings about First Class. I loved the concept of telling how things started. The actor for Magneto was a nice, sexy choice as well. However, I felt Xavier wasn't well represented, and kind of a pansy. Also, mutant choice was lacking. Only Magneto, Emma Frost, and Azazel seemed worthy. The rest of their powers were so lackluster. Especially Angel. Why!?!? Also I have a complaint about Mystique. She was so useless :( She's my favorite from the previous films and one of my faves from the cartoon. She just couldn't do anything this time around. Magneto was so much more charming than Xavier in the film. I would definitely join the revolution.


 On the good side, it was much better acted than some of the previous films. Also, the storyline had much fewer holes in it.  The Hugh Jackman cameo was a nice touch too :)

I almost forgot to mention Kevin Bacon. How could I possibly dislike anything with him in it??

Japanese Jams



When I was in Japan I went Japanese clubbing of course. I was totally in awe of the synchronized dancing I witnessed. These 2 songs particularly stuck in my mind. I will learn them one day.

Travel Note 6

I love that everything is exactly the price it says. No thinking about tax or tip.

I love efficiency. It makes me so happy.



Travel Note 5

I eat way less here. But I'm still just as full. No wonder people here are so skinny.

Also, I'm loving this active lifestyle. People here are so healthy. They walk everywhere! I hope my life is more like this when I don't have a car in NYC.

I'm still getting used to walking on the left side. I have to fix myself all the time.




Travel Note 4

Next time I come to Japan, I will prepare by learning popular dances to do in the club. Synchronized dancing rocks.


Travel Note 3

Girls in Tokyo have got style. Everyone is so cute and wears heels.

Also, being 22 and smiling a lot gets you a long way in this city :)
Japanese hospitality rocks.


Travel Note 2


I forgot my razor at home. Dammit.


Hello Ghost

Watched some Korean movie on the plane called Hello Ghost. Omg totally triggered my momma's boy issues. Had me sobbing next to this quiet Singaporean couple. :( Cue embarrassment.

Travel Note 1

I miss business class.

I hate babies on planes.

There are some beautiful people in the row across from me. How will I sneak a picture? So dreamy.


Monday, April 11, 2011

En Vogue


Went to the En Vogue concert yesterday at Yoshi's. Amazing show. The Funky Divas of Soul still got it. Original dance moves and all.

Fashion Inspiration


I want to be everything about this man.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Learning to let go of things has always been my struggle. As much as I lay out the facts, it just doesn't happen for me.

Damn me being an emotional hoarder.

I need to distance myself from people and things that tie me down. Just like Nelly, "I'm like a bird, I only fly away."

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Scarves



I've already taken on the bow tie in the world of accessories. My next venture is to take on the scarf. Once I live in NY I will definitely hit up the Hermes sample sale.

Saturday, March 5, 2011

Phil Collins Retires

This is a sad day indeed. I wish I was old enough to have had the chance to see him perform.
The 60-year-old star says he feels it is "a good time to stop" making music, adding: "I don't think anyone's going to miss me."
He has hearing problems, a dislocated vertebra and nerve damage in his hands, all brought on by a lifetime spent hunched behind a drum kit.
The songwriter also claims that listeners have grown "sick" of him and that there is no longer a place for him in the current music scene.
God damn this is so heartbreaking. For such a musical superstar to feel that way. This man has made music that helped shape the way I grew up. For him to feel that he's no longer relevant is unbelievable disheartening.  I know he won't ever see this, but Phil, I will miss you and there is always room for you in my iPod. I think you said it best with "You'll be in my Heart."

Friday, March 4, 2011

The Black Keys - Tighten Up


My latest music obsession. This song has been on repeat all day. Such a simple and fun video too.

The Cat Returns (2002)


Most movies I've been watching lately are very serious dramas or documentaries. But when I'm sick I don't want to think that hard. Thus, what better time to bring out some Studio Ghibli happiness? This is my first film from them I've seen that wasn't directed by Hayao Miyazaki. I'm happy to say I wasn't disappointed.

Ryan Leslie




I'll give it to him, boy can rock the stage. Very glad I went to his show. Next thing he needs to work on is timeliness and bringing his supermodel girlfriend on stage.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Kanye West - New Workout Plan


This has been my workout jam as of late. Keeps me super pumped whenever I go running. I just put it on repeat and I end up running at least an extra half mile more than I planned.

My favorite lyrics are these:
That's right, put in work (Woo!)
Move your ass, go berserk (Ow!
Eat your salad, no dessert (Ugh!)
Get that man you deserve

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Donald Glover

My love for Donald Glover has compounded as of yesterday. I already loved him because of Community. Seriously, him an Abhed are the reasons I watch that show. So cute. But thank Idolator.com for introducing me to his music.


I love his rhymes. So witty and geeky. He is like Lil Wayne, but not annoying. Perfect!

I also Wiki'd him and found this.
Glover is known for his work on the NBC show Community alongside Joel McHale and Chevy Chase. Glover has also been a writer for the NBC series 30 Rock where he developed the character Toofer along with most of the writing for actor Tracy Morgan in the first season. He was nominated for the Writers Guild of America Award award for Best Comedy Series at the February 2009 ceremony for his work on the third season of 30 Rock.[6]

Glover is featured in Gap's 2010 Holiday ad campaign.
Man. Such a mega crush now. He's coming to the Fillmore in April. I hope tix aren't too expensive so I can see his stand up and rap. It'll be my first hip hop show.

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Four Lions (2009)


Really great film. I was really impressed by how they were able to take such a serious topic and make it accessible to a wide audience. I'll also admit to getting mushy towards the end, I developed a fondness for almost all of the characters.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Fantastic Mr. Fox (2009)


To be honest, I wasn't all that fond of the animation style. What won me over was all the weird random shit that Fox would do. Damn that George Clooney, even when he's a fox he is still ridiculously cool. I dunno, not much to say about this film. Been watching a lot of serious things lately. It was nice to have something light-hearted for a change of pace.